Could you organize the group gift? Could you babysit this weekend? Could you lend me some money (again)? Meet Carla. She said yes to all these requests—this past weekend. People who meet her see a dynamic, caring and accomplished woman. They’re right.They’re just missing something—Carla is a people-pleaser. You won’t find it highlighted on her resume, or part of her online profile, but it’s there. Carla struggles to say no. She is warm and caring at her core, so it’s no act—she wants to help. But then she feels resentful later, when her time is stretched. Have you ever suffered… [Read More]
Archives for January 2012
Welcome to the blog
Breathe. Smile. Move forward. Welcome to my blog. I’m Alicia, and I’m chuffed that you’ve dropped by! The Savvy Girl’s Guide to Grace is about simple ways to lead a savvy life…channeling your inner Audrey, really….and putting your stamp on it. It’s about finding a balance with the hats we wear (turns out, it is possible!) and welcoming moments of grace and kindness amidst the rush. We’re more logged on than ever, but sometimes more isolated, too. I’ll be sharing my thoughts on what makes a girl savvy, and how she handles different scenarios, from hassles on campus or at… [Read More]