Alicia Young

Trying to Live Gracefully in a Rushed World

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ASK AN EGG DONOR™

June 1, 2016 by Alicia Young

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THIS ISSUE: *My husband’s family object to us using an egg donor. *Infertility workshops or conferences? My husband’s parents object to us using an egg donor. It began with a few moans and groans, now they’re saying they’re reconsidering the wills. They insist they won’t consider the child their grandchild and believe science has gone to far (they won’t admit it, but there’s also the what-will-the-neighbor’s-think attitude.). I don’t care about the money, and neither does my husband really, but then, he has a lot more to lose. …and possibly everything to gain. I respect you have both endured enough… [Read More]

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WINNERS! 2014 Savvy Life Awards/Savvy Girl Awards

May 9, 2014 by Alicia Young

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WINNERS! $5000 in Prizes!  2014 SAVVY LIFE AWARDS/SAVVY GIRL AWARDS   The inaugural Savvy Life Awards/Savvy Girl Awards has now wrapped up, and our thanks to each person who entered. You came from all across the US! We took inspiration as you shared your thoughts on a savvy life, and how you help your family, friends and wider communities. In addition to the prizes below, winners will receive a copy of Alicia Young’s award-winning book, The Savvy Girl’s Guide to Grace: small touches with big impact—at work, home & in love. It explores ways to tap our inner Audrey Hepburn,… [Read More]

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Posted in Community, LIfe, Mind, Relationships, Social Life, Spirit, Uncategorized Tags: LoboLuxe, Spread-the-word Prizes, The Savvy Blogger Award, The Savvy Citizen Award, The Savvy Girl award (College), The Savvy Girl Award (High School Senior), The Savvy Girl Awards, The Savvy Life Awards

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The Year of No.

January 12, 2014 by Alicia Young

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[HAPPY NEW YEAR! I allow myself one re-post each year, around now. I offer it as a reminder to us all – myself included – of the need to become/stay comfortable with saying no when people or obligations tip the scale and become toxic. Please consider. Also, while I have you, we’ve just switched to the domain savvylife.net, and doing so meant we lost social media data on the posts. Please know how much we appreciate the tweets, “likes” and “shares”. – Thanks, Alicia.] Could you organize the group gift? Could you babysit this weekend? Could you lend me some… [Read More]

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Posted in Career, Communication, Community, Identity, LIfe, Mind, Relationships, Social Life, Spirit Tags: aggression, assertion, balance, friendships, loaning money, No, Relationships, saying no, self esteem, self worth.

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Five touching moments in 2013:

December 29, 2013 by Alicia Young

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5. Selflessness: Our little neighbor, who shared her birthday toys with children at a local shelter. 4. Generosity & discretion: Strangers help blind man to keep his aging guide dog. NYC resident Cecil Williams had expected he would soon have to give up his faithful companion, Orlando, as his insurance doesn’t cover a non-working service dog. In December, Orlando helped save his master’s life when Mr. Williams fell on to the tracks of the New York subway. Donors covered costs to ensure the pair stay together. 3. Grace: Nine-year old swimmer presents championship trophy to his rival. Florida boy Josh… [Read More]

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Posted in Community, LIfe, Mind, Relationships, Spirit Tags: 2013, 2014, compassion, generosity, Grace, kindness, Nelson Mandela, nonjudgment, selflessness

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What makes a life happy or successful?

November 13, 2013 by Alicia Young

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Over the weekend, I delivered a talk on success in different cultures. What constitutes a happy or successful life? We all use a different yardstick, of course. Maybe a combination of family time, career accomplishment and financial security? A Mercedes in the driveway? Designer clothes? An Oscar? Let me tell you about one of the most successful people I’ve met. I’m not talking about a world leader, nor a famous athlete … in fact, no-one who would headline a Vegas show, walk the red carpet or stand on a dais. She was a six year old girl, and I met… [Read More]

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Posted in Career, Community, Identity, LIfe, Mind, Relationships, Spirit Tags: adversity, challenges, designer clothes, famous people, happiness, happy, India, leprosy hospital, Mercedes, Oscars, Russian nesting dolls., success, yardstick

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Gifts that inspire.

August 14, 2013 by Alicia Young

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[NOTE: My first post since May. Thanks for your patience, as I pushed through the last few months of the book. See sample chapters via the Amazon link at right.] I was inspired today by a fabulous friend (thanks, Blossom!) whose FB post shows the impact of a gift. Let me paraphrase: A young struggling writer once received a gift of a year’s salary from a friend, with a note that read: “You have a year off from your job to write whatever you please. Merry Christmas.” That young writer was Harper Lee. And of course, she wrote, To Kill… [Read More]

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Laughter

May 1, 2013 by Alicia Young

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Laughter is surprisingly canny (as opposed to, say, canned laughter). On the surface, it’s just an amused reaction to something funny: lighthearted, guttural, fleeting. Yet it has surprising power to ease tension at the highest levels or seal instant friendships, and its healing benefits have long been touted. You can even enroll for laughter therapy. In California. Of course. A baby’s laughter is surely one of life’s intoxicating sounds. When little ones are amused, their joyous gurgles bubble up from within. They’re fully in the moment, sometimes unaware of anyone else, perhaps fully engaged in their own toes. And it’s… [Read More]

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Posted in Communication, Community, Humor, LIfe, Relationships Tags: canned laughter, Laughter, sense of humor

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Time

April 24, 2013 by Alicia Young

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“I’ve been on a calendar, but I’ve never been on time.” —Marilyn Monroe. Each of us has a relationship with time. We might bluster through our day, lurching from appointment to appointment, or we might move like molasses, unperturbed. Society vows “faster” is better. I found a spray called a “sixty-second shower” —apparently, a few good squirts, and you’re good to go. A fast food ad proclaims “Served in nine minutes—or it’s free.” Carl Honoré is an international journalist, always jetting off to exotic locales—and always battling the clock as he races to file the story. A pivotal moment inspired… [Read More]

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A few of my favorite things…?

April 11, 2013 by Alicia Young

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Maybe I’ve caught bits of The Sound of Music a little too often (she says, loving it every time). Maybe it’s the frequent fire sirens lately. Or maybe I was inspired by a writer friend, who wrote eloquently about possessions and the hold they can have on us, as well as the delicious release when we let them go. So I’m wondering: what are your three most treasured possessions? And here’s a challenge: you can’t say family photos, diaries or books! Here goes: I have a parasol which I love. I use it every day for sun protection and it… [Read More]

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Posted in Community, Identity, LIfe, Mind, Relationships Tags: ANZACs, Downton Abbey, hands, independence, parasol, sun protection, The Sound Od Music, treasure possessions, waitress

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Handling Compliments

April 3, 2013 by Alicia Young

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A lot of women struggle with compliments – and I was one of them for years. If you’re complimented on a dress, how do you respond? “Oh, this old thing?” We can make others feel silly for their seemingly questionable taste. Others think a compliment must be automatically volleyed back to the giver, something like a shuttlecock in badminton. “You look great!” gushes one girl. “You too!” squeals the other. It sounds like a scene in a slasher movie, right before the prom queen meets a grisly fate. And a Savvy Girl takes a moment to compliment an older lady…. [Read More]

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