THIS ISSUE: *Tension over sister’s offer. *Office baby showers when you’re TTC. *How to tell my child. My sister and brother-in-law have been TTC (trying to conceive) for a year now, and recently I offered to be her donor. I was shocked when she flew off the handle and stormed off. I didn’t expect a gold medal, but neither did I think she’d chew my head off. It’s been a week of silence. I appreciate you had the very best intentions when you made the offer; it sounds like your sister simply needs some time to process it. They… [Read More]
ASK AN EGG DONOR™
Issue #04. THIS ISSUE: *I’m adopted—can I be an egg donor? * How to support a dad-to-be? Privacy **Emotional IUOs. *** I’m adopted—can I still be an egg donor? I’ve both interviewed and received emails from egg donors who were adopted. Of course, each clinic has its own way of doing things, but in my experience each requires a detailed family and personal medical history. Clinic staff will be happy to help clarify what they would need. You don’t mention whether you have some patchy information about your birth family, or none at all. Do you feel ready to explore… [Read More]
ASK AN EGG DONOR™ January 2016
THIS ISSUE: *Unused Embryos *Fertility Registries *When to Look for a Donor *Pre-occupied Friends ***** Q: I’m gay and considering being an anonymous egg donor. The clinic has been great, but one thing bothers me: if there’s left over embryos and the parents don’t want them, why can’t I get them? I’d be open to using an anonymous sperm donor in the future, so I don’t see this as being any different. A: I’m not an attorney, but my understanding is that any and all donor eggs, donor sperm, and embryos created belong wholly and solely to the recipients. That… [Read More]